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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Dating A Hypocrite

Okay, so since September I have been single but at the end of July, beginning of August I dated this one guy, who I thought was amazing and then at the end of Sept. he dumped me. I was crushed, he made me mad, and I just hated him. Well a month or two ago I talked to him for the first time in a long time, and he came out of the closest to me. It was a huge relief, because well I got my closeure, and he dated another girl after me so it wasn't my fault.

Well the two of us have been on really great terms, we see each other more now then we did when we dated. So tonight he and I were hanging out and he decided to tell me that when he went to New York to see Rent, he kissed someone else when he was at a party. He hadn't called me the whole weekend, and he swore up and down that he didn't do anything with anyone, he just danced. So as of right now he is not only a lair, bur here is what makes him a hypocrite.

While we were dating, I had a knock-down drag out fight with my mom. She locked me out of the house and took my cell and keys. When I finally out back into the house I was upset, I cried and when I woke up the next morning I was still upset, so I decided to skip my classes. I knew it was a bad idea, but I did. Well when he called me that day I told him my classes were cancelled so I wouldn't have to explain, because he didn't believe me when I told him how my mom acted to begin with. I lied, but it was so stupid, and I told him later that day anyway.

When I did tell him the truth he blew up at me. Told me he couldnt be with someone who lied to him, and he would have to think about if he still wanted to date me. Well he did take me back, I swore never to lie to him again, and we broke up a little over a week later.

It just really makes me mad that he was such a hypocrite. Lying to me about something like kissing someone else, when I told a little white lie and got nothing but crap. So right now I am just venting a little bit, I told my 2 best friends and I won't tell anyone else because I refuse to let myself get upset about something that doesnt matter anymore because we are not together, but I just hate that he is a Hypocrite and I needed to get that off my chest.

Thank you!

1 comments:

Michelle said...

I see your point, but a lie is a lie. He should have been more considerate of your feelings, however, there's no doubt about that. I'm sorry you got hurt, but if this is the way he treats you when you're severely conflicted, then you need someone else.

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